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Strengthen & Grow OR Move On

I was having a conversation with someone the other day about what happens after a couple of weeks or months into a relationship and why.

We were talking about how some of the anticipation and excitement normally die down as people kind of settle into their roles.

Does anyone ever feel somewhat disappointed after this happens?
Ever think about what it is that makes this happen?

People get way too comfortable and secure.
People stop doing the things they did to get the other person to fall for them.
And they just chill thinking it's okay to completely fall off.
Things become boring and routine sometimes and predictable.

Those phone calls or texts you received regularly stop.
Instead of hearing from them every morning, you hear from them whenever they seem to have time for you.
And then conflict comes into play with explanations about how busy they suddenly become even though the first two weeks, they never seemed all that busy.
And if you're "always just so busy&q…